Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Introduction
I have fortunately/unfortunately inherited the gift/curse of being the village counselor to everyone I know. My tactics at times can be described as sort of Dr. Phil-esque without the annoying southern accent. Life can be quite simple, and yet I watch people put so much energy into complicating their lives day after day and I really feel like there are easy solutions to seeing and knowing how to fix most problems that come your way. So ask away, if I help...woohoo, if not, well your life isn't any worse off.
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Okay, so here's a question, in what way should ex's play a part in a new relationship? Is there an obligation to accept that your current boyfriend/partner has frequent contact with their ex? Is it even a big deal? Should one feel obligated to meet an ex? In short, should ex's remain a part of the past or do they have a place in the present?
It is very rare to find a person in a healthy, happy relationship that feels the need to stay in contact with their ex. The exception would be if this was a girlfriend from high school or something that wasn't really serious. Most reasons why people stay in contact with an ex is to make themselves feel better and wanted because they are obviously lacking that feeling or comfort in their current relationship. Meeting your boyfriends ex or vice versa is odd, selfish, and very unneccessary.
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