I'll Show Him!

Women have many "I'll Show Him" moments where they just won't answer the phone to feel like they are in control (even though they aren't and have checked their phone to see if he called about ten thousand times that day) or will go out and flirt with another guy to make themselves feel better even though their boyfriend isn't even around. All of these "I'll Show Him" moments really never work in your favor. Especially if you are part of the large population of women who think about their boyfriend waaaay more than they ever should and then try to play it off like they don't care. Bottom line is...if you don't answer the phone, that could have been the one free moment your guy had that day and when you call back and he doesn't answer, well then your plan just went down the drain and now you are disappointed because you didn't get to talk to him. If you are flirting with another guy and he's not even around to see it, then really your focus is still on your boyfriend the entire night and you are trying waaay too hard and I'm pretty sure this really isn't going to help you out. So if you find yourself thinking "I'll Show Him", just pass, stop playing games (because you wouldn't want him to play games with you) and just be real.