Going from opinionated to passive is a recipe for disaster

Many women especially in our generation are independent, opinionated, strong, smart, and so much more. So why is it when we get into a relationship that we try extremely hard to be "the cool girlfriend" we think we should be and we think our boyfriends want. I'm pretty sure that it's annoying as hell to constantly have to make the decisions in a relationship and yet constantly hold back and take the "I don't care, we can do whatever you want" road. Well that may be cute at first but I'm pretty sure if you stay with this guy long enough it's going to get old quickly. Not too mention whether you realize it or not you are holding back a lot and that's going to catch up to you. It soon turns into you being resentful and these feelings come out in smaller issues which really have nothing to do with anything. Keep in mind the reason your boyfriend was probably attracted to you from the beginning was because you had opinions and spoke them (or maybe it was just because you had a nice ass or chest). Anytime you try to hard to hold back how you are feeling it's going to catch up to you one way or another (I'm gonna git cha git cha git cha git cha...sorry had to).